It would be interesting to hear a non biased view on the incident with no connections with the club involved.
Knowing players at all ages at this level. One can envisage the below situation took place.
Youth player comes on. Dives in harshly looking to impress. Ref pulls player on this and is met with the usual ' fk off ref'etc etc. Ref then gives a bit back.
Now not condoning the ref even if this was the case. But being honest if a player regardless of age is crying because someone said " that's why you are on the bench" i'd find it very difficult to believe and I can see there certainly being another side to this.
unbelievable response well thats the last from me goodbye.