Booze Train to Fisher!!

[Claire!]

Why is she naive to marry a bloke she loves?

 

To [***!!***] about just to get as much experience of men as possible before she settles down, really isn't much of an issue.

 

He's 4 years older than her, and he adores her, and obviously makes her happy, so why not?

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

Never said she should put it about, Claire.

 

But if she's been with the same guy since school, and has never even considered what being with someone else might be like, it all sounds a bit blinkered.

 

Good luck to them - she'll be divorced with a kid by 26.

 

 

[Claire!]

Probably, but our theory of life (as we've both had very [****!!****] up childhoods) is to live life for the moment, and deal with what ever comes at you when it does, and not waste time worrying about it.

 

If she gets married now, she'll be happy, and if it does turn sour and she gets divorsed by 26 then she'll deal with that then. Not sit back and think "well i had better not get married (even though i'm really happy) incase it all goes wrong and i get divorced at 26"

 

But like me, we have both said that (if) and when we get married it would be for life.

 

Most people think that because we're young(er) that we don't have life experience to make these decisions. But believe me, we have experienced so much more things in life that other poeple would not ever want to go through at any age, and so we have very strong minds to make up our own minds about things.

[CANV EFM]

yours at 26 C.Z. doomed to failure.. tell her to bin him.. get on it for 5 years then give him a call if she still feels the same way.. at waste of a life alert!

[Claire!]

No it's not!!!!!!!

 

Life is for living now!!!!!! Not for the future!!!!!!!

 

Those 5 years could be filled with so much happiness - why waste that feeling?!!!!!!!

[CANV EFM]

being divorced with a kid at 26 will cause some serious contraints on living life to the max.. especially as 26 is when you are really ideally set up to enjoy the planey

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

If she's had a fked up childhood herself, she should know better than to potentially force a fked up childhood onto her children, which is undoubtedly what will happen in this situation.

 

She's had a crap childhood, so she's been clinging to one bloke since the age of 15, marrying him because he's become a crutch, and then her kids will suffer too.

 

This is a disaster waiting to happen.

 

 

[Claire!]

LOL!!!!!!!!!!

 

But she may not be divorsed with a kid at 26!!!!!!!

 

Ohhhh, i can't explain it, not so people would understand, but she's happy now, is in love with her fiance, have got a gorgeous 4 bedroomed house, and a gorgeous french bulldog!!!!!

 

They're happy, the wedding isn't for at least a couple of years, children arn't planned for a couple of years after that, and they are still enjoying each other's company!!!!!

 

What more could be better than that!!!!!!!!

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

Well, they were away last weekend.

 

 

[Claire!]

Away where?

 

 

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

On holiday.

 

 

[Claire!]

who were on holiday?!!!!!!!!

 

Oh Confused!!!!!!!!!

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

The couple who have just got engaged.

 

 

[Claire!]

LOL!!!!!!

 

No!!!! They didn't go on holiday last week!!!!!!!! Where you get that from?

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

What I said was, they were away for the weekend.

 

 

[Claire!]

They wern't away for the weekend, they were at home, in Luton.

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

How do you know??

 

 

[Claire!]

because i was with them at the weekend watching pulp fiction!!!!!

[YB941 5thD EFM ~soul~]

A likely story.

 

 

[Claire!]

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Oh i love you zeal, in some weird strange, inssestrial way!!!!!!

 

Anyway, shall i do a post about my news?!!!!!!!!!